Love Yourself
The number one commandment for any GFYMethod follower is to love yourself first and foremost. It might sound conceded to the masses, but the truth is there is nothing wrong with putting yourself as #1 in all aspects of your life. You have one body, one mind, and one life. Loving yourself to do what's BEST for you needs to be part of your daily routine just as much as brushing your teeth and showering. Decisions made through the “love yourself” rule will prove positive over time. Sounds really simple I know, but most people feel that sacrificing, pleasing others at own expense, and putting themselves last is being a caring and unselfish human being. People know they aren't striving for the top or giving themselves a shot to succeed, but the social trap called acceptance has conquered many. Think of it this way.... if people demanded the BEST from/for themselves most would avoid the headaches, pain, and negative outcomes throughout life. Cut out the fat and the negative influences. You owe it to yourself because life is too short to be second best. Ask yourself this... What am I worth? If I'm not worthy to be #1 to myself, then how will others respect and value me?
Become Aware
In order to make correct and beneficial decisions over time one must be informed and aware. Raising ones self-awareness is the second rule for success. Without the correct information problems can't be solved effectively or correctly. The GFY Method sheds a light on societies fallacies that have been engrained in us from childhood. Our society loves the sheep and underdog that won't ask questions, demand answers, and stand up for themselves. The elephant in the room is the crying from within that goes unheard in daily life. Make the choice to become knowledgeable and learn yourself for your own gain. See what works and what doesn't and the awareness gained will be invaluable.
Dream Big
Let's clear something up right away... DREAM BIG... DREAM UNREALISTIC... DON'T STOP DREAMING. Ok now that I have your attention find it within yourself what gets that warm feeling going when you think about something you love, or desire. Being aware of yourself and your desire should paint a picture in your mind of what that dream is and go out and love the process towards that dream. Might sound cheesy, but if there is something that you truly desire to get/have then nothing will stop you from making that dream come true. If you noticed I didn't say “THINK OF BIG GOALS”. Difference between goals and dreams is the feeling we have towards them. Goals rely heavily on the outcome which can be disruptive when ups and downs occur. The journey towards a goal can be very rocky and can create doubt, frustration, and discouragement which can ultimately lead to failure. A dream on the other hand can make the journey towards an outcome more pleasurable and exciting. Hurdles will crumble because a dreamer will find a way to make that dream come true no matter what. It's all in the thinking once again. Oh and before I forget don't be realistic in your dreams. Anytime a person is "realistic” all they are doing is setting the bar lower than what's possible. None of us can predict our potential so why put an unnecessary barrier up.
Do Something
So you've done your homwork and gathered the information. Now what? Do something and do it NOW. The GFY Method is about taking action. Expanding on that thought, once a person has broken through the chains and ideas the masses swear by it's time to put the plan in action and not look back. Remember that performance is first and outcome is second. Focus, prepare, deliver... you are informed, aware, and ready to go. Action comes from confidence in oneself. Nothing just happens without action. Physics taught us that! Planning and preparing will mean nothing without delivering. This is the step that most people have a difficult time with because of doubts and the fear of failure. Focusing on the outcome will make these feelings hinder performance which in turn will affect the outcome. This yo-yo effect paralizes people to the point that no action becomes a viable plan. Instead, a person must plan, prepare, and deliver at a high level. The rest of the dominos will naturally fall as they need to.
Expect Nothing
Last but not least expect nothing from anyone or anything. Life would be boring if people or events were predictable. Too many people fall pray to the status quo or false hindsight. Your attitude, thoughts, performance, and actions are the predictable factors that can be controlled. Focusing on the things that can be controlled will save energy for the things that need attention. We aren't robots and becoming energy savers isn't a bad proposition. Too much energy and focus can be lost by focusing on what others think, do, or say so why bother yourself with that? Same idea goes for outcomes. Do not focus solely on outcomes because success isn't guaranteed even if you are squared away. What's predictable and controllable is your attitude and performance! Once again it sounds simple, but most of us have been in exhausting situations only to wonder later on why we even put in the effort. Focus on what you can control and life becomes a lot simpler.
Happy New Year from everyone here at the GFY Method! Make 2012 YOUR year and join us on the path to freedom, success, and personal growth!
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